Leadership doesn’t begin when you put on a DECA blazer, and it doesn’t end when you take it off.
While DECA has helped shape me as a leader, some of my biggest leadership lessons have come from experiences outside of DECA. Whether it's at school, work, or in your community, there are opportunities to lead everywhere.
1. Say Yes Before You're Ready
Some of the best leadership opportunities can be intimidating at first. When I was a campus tour guide, I regularly spoke with prospective students and families. The first time I gave a campus tour, I certainly didn't feel like an expert. However, by stepping outside my comfort zone and saying yes, I developed confidence and communication skills that continue to help me today.
Leadership isn't about having all the answers; it’s about being willing to take the first step.
2. Create Opportunities
Don't wait for permission to lead - create your own opportunities.
Over the years, I've started businesses, created content and launched projects that brought people together. The best part is that anyone can do it! None of those opportunities came with a leadership title attached. Leadership came from taking ownership, solving problems and helping others get involved.
3. Invest in Your Community
Leadership is ultimately about making a positive impact on others.
One experience that taught me this was helping promote Alexandria's "Love Where You Live, Shop Local" campaign. Supporting local businesses, encouraging community engagement and helping highlight what makes a community special showed me that leadership often happens behind the scenes.
When you invest in your community, you're investing in the people around you.
4. Lead Through Your Actions
People pay more attention to what you do than what you say.
Make sure you show up prepared, follow through on commitments and treat others with respect. Whether at work, in class, or within DECA, consistency builds trust - and trust is one of the most important foundations of leadership.
5. Build Genuine Relationships
Leadership is about people.
One lesson I've learned through DECA and beyond is that connection starts with common ground. Take time when you’re at school, work, or out and about to listen, learn about others, and build authentic relationships. People are far more likely to follow leaders who genuinely care about them.
Leadership opportunities exist everywhere if you're willing to look for them. By stepping outside your comfort zone, investing in your community, and building meaningful relationships, you'll continue to grow as a leader long after your DECA journey ends.





